Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Man Vs Woman

Assalamualaikum

There's so much thing I want to say. Ehe. Here we go again. Tadi mase basuh pinggan *cewah anak mithali la ni*, adik aku bukak pintu belakang. Nak cari barbeque grill kot. Aku pun cakap, "Tutup pintu balik!!!", dalam nada nak marah. Agak menjerit di situ. Hah tapi bukannya niat nak marah pun. Saje je. Aku tau kalau tak buat macam tu, nanti dia akan ignore ape aku cakap. Tapi end up die tutup je pintu. Pastu aku terpikir, "Eh aku ni garang sangat ke? Cepat sangat nak melenting?". Teruk sangat ke aku ni? Huhuhuu~~

So what's the hassle? Serta-merta aku teringat conversation dengan cousin aku petang tadi. She's 5 years older than me, still single but not available tih3. She asked me, "Dayah takde sape2 ke lagi?".

Hahahahhahaha *gelak dalam hati je* Biarla rahsiaaaaa...for now :p

Ohhh haaa I remember a quote,
"While chemistry and attraction are no doubt important, character precedes them both. A famous quote follows, “Chemistry ignites the fire, but character keeps it burning.” The idea of falling “in love” should never be the sole reason for marrying someone; it is very easy to confuse infatuation and lust for love."

Kalau takde chemistry, mana mungkin serasi? 
Kalau 'takde' character, mana mungkin memahami?

And so my cousin said, "It's true man and woman are different but after reading this one book, I don't expect they're so different to THAT extent". Aku macam wowww, THAT yang macam mane? Tapi betulla, cara pemikiran dua makhluk Allah ni sangat berbeza. But in what aspect? 0_o


My cousin cite ade sorang kawan die ni (a girl) cakap lepas couple, boyfriend die macam tak layan die sangat. Dah macam lost interest and all. Yela, before couple, kemain lagi ayat sume nak bunga2. Lepas da dapat, macam nak lepas tangan je. And so my cousin penah tanya that guy (the boyfriend), how come jadi macam tu? Then that guy cakap (which I think it makes sense to me after a while), "Kitorang da bersungguh-sungguh nak tackle perempuan tu so bila da couple, kitorang expect the girl la pulak yang put effort tuk maintain the relationship".
When the person you love commits mistakes and ask for forgiveness, there's nothing to forgive cause if you love someone there are no rules and apologies just UNDERSTANDING.
Boleh keeee macam tuuuu? Yes, it does make sense. It's true you guys have put 100% to get the girl. But what happened to give and take? I think it goes back to the chemistry and character thing. Alaaa kene la saling memahami, loyal and trust each other. Cakap senang kan? Tapi kalau dah kena batang hidung sendiri, macam mane nak handle? Aigo. But as quoted from my senior, "Man are physical being, they attracted to what they can see. Women, on the other hand, is an emotional being. They love things that touch their heart". Kalau tak paham, dalam erti bahasa melayu nye, jadi la "Lelaki selalu pandang fizikal, baru datang rasa sayang. Dan perempuan adalah sebaliknya". Ado pehe? :D

Sebenarnya kan, lelaki ni simple-minded je. Diorang tak akan paham kalau perempuan tu tak cakap direct dan berpuitis bagai. Sebab tu kadang2 bila perempuan tu merajuk, diorang taktau nak pujuk. Ade yang maybe berdiam diri sebab nak bagi perempuan tu masa untuk cool down and all that. Tapi perempuan rasa macam lelaki tu abaikan diorang, tak reti nak jaga feeling diorang and mula la si perempuan ni nak pikir macam2. Ala perempuan kan suka berpikir, complicated sikit hehehe. Bila lelaki tu cakap direct, it means dia jujur and tanak berahsia dengan girlfriend dia. Kadang2 lelaki ni bole jadi super super honest kan? Padahal dia tak berniat nak sakitkan hati girlfriend dia ke ape ke. Hahah macam kelakar pulak :p 


See? Perempuan ni special. Oh and fragile hehe. Apart from that, diorang ni sangatlah suka pujian. Tapi jangan sarcastic pulak haha. Bagila pujian yang ikhlas. Perempuan sukakan someone yang caring sebab diorang akan rasa protected. Well, ada certain perempuan yang manja kan. Tapi tak semuanya macam tu. Jangan terlebih2 manja pulak, nanti boyfriend jadi rimas huhuh. And jangan jadi attention seeker ye. Erk. Hmm pastu, perempuan ni suka express feeling diorang thru music, poem or writing (such as blog). Kalau korang kasi surat, teddy bear ke ape ke, confirm diorang simpan lagi! Diorang excited kot kalau korang kasi hadiah2 ni. Bukannya diorang materialistic, it's just those things have sentimental value to them. Macam benda berharga la, especially bila boyfriend diorang yang kasi. Tak pecaye pegi tanya diorang hehe.  

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Thank you Pooh for understanding us - by Women

Kesimpulannya, perempuan akan jatuh hati kat perwatakan lelaki tu. Baik hati, prihatin, kelakar and easy-going. Camne dengan rupa? Hmm as long as manis dipandang, aku ok je kot. Aku pun bukannye Lisa Surihani. Tetttt! 

Hmm lelaki? Sorry la aku pun tak tahu diorang suke perempuan macam mane kan hehe. Depends on them la. Ade yang suke perempuan yang talkative and pandai buat jokes (since most guys kan pendiam, tak banyak cakap), perempuan yang lemah-lembut and pandai melayan orang tua, perempuan yang pandai masak (alamak????) and macam2 lagi la kalau kita tanya orang lelaki ni.

Haaa tapi kalau dah demanding sangat (nak yang perfect jeee), boleh tu boleh tapi kena la muhasabah diri dulu. Kita ni dah cukup perfect ke? Walau ape2 pun, yang penting iman di dada kena la kuat to prepare you for marriage. Pasangan mane yang tanak masuk syurga Allah kan? :)
Tak perlu mencari teman secantik Balqis, jika diri tak seindah Sulaiman. Mengapa perlu diharap lelaki sekacak Yusof jika kasih tak setulus Zulaikha. Tak perlu diri menjadi seteguh Ibrahim, jika tak sekuat Sarah. Mengapa didamba teman hidup seistimewa Khadijah, jika diri tak sesempurna Rasulullah SAW. 
Okla kawan2. Macam da banyak aku bebel tapi merepek2 je. 
Kan aku da kate aku tak reti bab2 ni? :p

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Tak guna ada mata kalau tak dapat melihat.
Tak guna ada hati kalau tak dapat menilai.


hidayah shukor

THANKS FOR READING! :)

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